All I can say about some days is (to quote a great musical): “We got trouble in River City…”
Might be me, might be them, probably both, that are the trouble.
Parenting does that for you, reveals the whole scary mess.
Some days, it’s a mess. All our messy insides get thrown out onto the table. Parenting while homeschooling gives us an opportunity to see our internal mess a whole lot more regularly.
Still having said that, I’ll remind myself, there are some distinct advantages to this life:
1. I get to be with my children.
2. We’ve got freedom.
3. I don’t have to fuss about bedtimes and wake times. Though I do have my routine, I can be very flexible.
4. I don’t rush out of the house in the morning, rush out of the house in the afternoon, or organize kids’ extracurricular activities in the evening hours when they, and I, want to rest.
5. I don’t have to report to anyone about why I’m doing what I’m doing.
6. I don’t have to buy school clothes, indoor shoes, prescribed school stuff. I buy clothes for the season…thankfully with three girls, long pants in September can still be capris next summer.
7. I don’t fuss that my kids aren’t learning math concepts at the same rate as their similiar-aged counterparts. They might learn about fractions when they’re six, or twelve.
8. I don’t need to waste their childhood helping them to recite for standardized testing. Instead, they spend time learning about topics to which they are curious.
9. I learn about things I never thought I would learn, ie: rise and fall of the US dollar, all things geology, zoology, British history, or quantam physics.
10. We can pursue stuff no one puts in typical curriculum anymore, like Latin, classical composers, and Impressionist art. And learning laundry, household management, and cooking.
11. I get to spend more time doing things I love too.
12. I have learned not to care what the mass culture cares about, ie: stuff, stuff management, and thinking I’m important cause I own the right stuff.
13. I have learned to befriend people that I like and who make sense to me.
14. There is always an opportunity for a connecting moment each day with each child. It might mean different things with different kids: moments involving Legos, discussions of the recently watched episode of Full House, chopping mushrooms for lunch, staring intently into one another’s eyes and kissing our faces in many creative ways…yes, this really does happen with one child.
15. I get to seriously influence them.
“Strength of character may be learned at work, but beauty of character is learned at home.”Henry Drummond
My attitude, my focus in life…these are imprinted, for good or for bad. Who else would I hope would imprint my children?
16. I get to work hard to bind their heart to mine. The only things that get in the way are my imperfections and theirs….which, ha ha, is an awful lot of stuff actually. But those are just opportunities for personal growth, for both of us.
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