The secret to raising a kid who can actually cook? Enable cooking in the homeschool — because our kids already spend so much time at home, the kitchen practically becomes their school.
So let them cook!
Messy hands, flour on the floor, and all — let’s enable cooking in the homeschool kitchen.
Why Enable Cooking in the Homeschool Kitchen?
- You have more time for other things.
- It’s a creative outlet that everyone benefits from (minus the extra kitchen clean-up;)
- They learn a tangible life skill.
- You don’t have to think about the next meal.
- They learn practical skills: fractions, nutrition, & safety.
What to cook? Whatever you like to eat, of course.
Our Story: How Boredom Became the Reason We Enable Cooking in the Homeschool
Our children learned to cook because they were bored.
We traveled to rural Kenya on a medical volunteer trip, and our four young kids had no screens except their MP3 players with previously downloaded American Test Kitchen cooking classes.
There was a recipe for pate brise, brownie, pate de choux, ganache, tarts, and cakes. (Not stuff we always consume, except the brownies).
Flour, sugar, and water were available in our pantry, so the potential was there. Every morning, Agnes, our house helper, arrived and started the natural gas oven with a lit match thrown into the oven, and we got our baking started.
The first time the kids sampled bread baking in a small apartment in Inuvik, Northwest Territories.
An unlikely place. But we were spending the summer adventuring while my husband was working a medical locum at their hospital.
So how else to harness boredom? Bake, cook, get messy, and learn kitchen skills. This is really what it means to enable cooking in the homeschool — giving kids the boredom and the ingredients, then getting out of the way.
From Boredom to a Real Business
Eventually, a catering job was offered to our twelve-year-old, who had a special skill at creating flaky pie crusts.
She set up her business, learned about capital costs (we fronted the costs for a coffee maker, which she gradually paid back), and created her own billing system.
She woke up at 0500 and baked up a storm: often ham n’ egg cups, muffins, scones, and fresh fruit for her dad to bring to his physician meetings. This job lasted for years — proof that once you enable cooking in the homeschool, kids run further with it than you’d expect.
From Pie Crusts to a Cooking Blog
Then she fell in love with a French cook, Julia Child. The accompanying movie, Julie & Julia, was engaging and got her curiosity piqued. She began a blog about cooking through her book, Mastering the Art of French Cooking.
She got through the soups and sauces sections and eventually let it go, but it sure is fun to see how she engaged with that. You can find my daughter’s blog here.
A Part-Time Bakery Job Teaches Even More
Later, this curiosity translated into a part-time regular job at a local bakery.
She had exposure to and training in all sorts of other techniques. It’s pretty funny to be taught by your child how to cut a symmetrical cake and how to provide an initial icing before you officially ice the cake. Her employer let me know she was her best tart maker and has an excellent work ethic. It’s proof that when you enable cooking in the homeschool early enough, it can turn into a real-world skill and income later.
(That bakery’s chocolate caramel tarts are also my ultimate favourite tart.)
When there is a request for a birthday pie (my husband’s favourite) or a Thanksgiving pie plan, I ask my now seventeen-year-old daughter to do it. I never create a product as she does. Once upon a time, I discovered why too: she showed me her skill.
“Mom, all you have to do is crumble the butter between your fingers with the flour.”
She’s a natural-born perfectionist, and always particular in the kitchen, and it always pays off.
“Oh, I see!” I declare, “I know why your pie crust is always better than mine! I have NO PATIENCE for that kind of detail.” And that is why her crusts are always better than mine.
From Kitchen Helper to Independent Cook
Now this almost grown-young woman can turn random things from the fridge into full meals, knows how to recreate a previous meal into a refreshed meal, and could make a Thanksgiving or Christmas feast independent of me.
This kiddo recognized that no one was eating a bag of frozen sour cherries, so she transformed this frozen fruit into dried fruit leather. One day, the garden provided more zucchini than the neighbours wanted, so she made a cashew cream zucchini pasta. And dare you to wonder if this was gross; it was not. It was delish.
She does acknowledge that I make better sourdough bread (which took me a year to perfect), but there is little else that I could make better than her.
Want to see our recent series, the Homeschool Kitchen? You can find us cooking up a storm on YouTube. Mostly it’s me taping and talking and her cooking.
Two Things That Helped Me Enable Cooking in the Homeschool
Want to know the two things I did that helped to contribute to this amazing homeschool kid cook?
- I encouraged her curiosity.
- I left the kitchen.
You all know what most moms do when they teach their kids to cook? Control, control, control.
“No, honey, too much baking soda. You gotta level it. No, honey, don’t overmix that or it’ll come out tough. No, honey, do this, do that. Oh, forget it, I’ll just do it myself.”
So note to self: leave the kitchen.
Want to know how many times they’ll add too much baking soda? NOT THAT MANY. It’s gross; they’ll learn.
Trust your kids to learn.
More Homeschool Kitchen Inspiration
My daughter, Madelyn, and I have been recording and creating cooking demonstrations for The Homeschool Kitchen, found on my YouTube channel if you’re looking for other inspired meal ideas. If you’re looking for more ways to enable cooking in the homeschool, these videos are a great place to start.
- Veggie Burgers & Homemade Buns
- Creamy Cashew Pasta
- Fish Tacos
- Spicy Tofu Bowl
- Roast Chicken
- Bean Chili & Cornbread
- Black Bean Enchiladas
- Chicken Curry
The Bottom Line: How to Enable Cooking in the Homeschool
You don’t need a catering business or a trip to Kenya to enable cooking in the homeschool — you just need to hand over the flour, leave the kitchen, and trust them to figure out the rest.
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Originally published January 2021. Revised September 13, 2026.
