Dear Homeschool Mom: Your Journey is More Than Just Home Educating Your Kids
Let’s get real for a moment and chat about why you need to invest in you homeschool mom. Though we spend our homeschool years organizing educational things, like curriculum, lesson plans, or extracurricular activities, homeschooling invites us to our personal growth journey. Can I hear an amen?
That personal growth journey is so much larger than we initially imagined – we learn about our emotional reactivity, we learn how to connect more meaningfully with others, we learn about our interests and curiosities, and we grow right alongside our kids to become more ourselves.
Reflection Prompt: Take a moment. Close your eyes. What’s one skill you’ve developed through homeschooling that surprises you?
A Conversation with a Graduated Homeschool Mom
Pat Fenner is a homeschool mom who recently graduated her youngest child after 25 years of homeschooling, marking a significant life transition.
After her youngest daughter started public school, Pat experienced a period of depression and loss of purpose, which inspired her to create “The Empty Homeschool Nest” program to help other homeschool moms navigate similar transitions. Pat helps us understand why you need to invest in you, homeschool mom, so you’re ready for the next stage of your life.
The Myth of “Just a Homeschool Mom”
First things first: you are SO much more than “just” a homeschool mom. Every single day, you’re:
- A project manager navigating complex family dynamics
- A curriculum designer creating personalized learning experiences
- An emotional coach helping your children navigate life’s challenges
- A soft skills expert teaching communication, conflict resolution, and empathy
Journal Prompt: List 3 professional skills you’ve gained through homeschooling. How might these translate to future opportunities?
The skills you’re developing? They’re not just parenting skills. They’re professional, transferable skills that are incredibly valuable in any workplace or entrepreneurial venture.
The “Why Not” Mindset: Your Secret Weapon
Here’s a powerful perspective shift: Start asking yourself, “Why not?”
- Why not pursue that passion project?
- Also why not invest time in yourself?
- Why not believe you have something unique to offer the world?
Reflective Exercise: Write down one thing you’ve been hesitating to do. Now, list 3 small steps you could take toward making it happen.
This isn’t about doing everything. It’s about being intentional. It’s about recognizing that your dreams and identity don’t disappear when you become a mom – they evolve and transform.
Boundaries Are Your Friend, Not Your Enemy
Boundaries aren’t walls that keep people out. They’re gates that help you protect your energy, your purpose, and your authentic self.
Self-Assessment: On a scale of 1-10, how comfortable are you with setting boundaries? What’s one boundary you could implement this week?
When you set healthy boundaries:
- You model self-respect for your children
- You prevent burnout
- You create space for your own growth and dreams
Your Season is Now
Whether you’re homeschooling or approaching the end of this homeschool mom chapter, remember: Your worth isn’t determined by how perfectly you educate your children or how much you do for others.
Powerful Reflection: If you could tell your younger self one thing about self-worth, what would it be?
Your worth is inherent. Your potential is unlimited.
Practical Next Steps
- Start journaling about your dreams
- Connect with other homeschool moms who inspire you
- Take small, consistent steps toward your personal goals
- Give yourself grace in the process
Action Challenge: Choose ONE item from this list and commit to doing it this week.
A Final Encouragement on Why You Need to Invest in You Homeschool Mom
You are doing important work. Not just in educating your children, but in becoming the most authentic version of yourself. Your journey matters. Your dreams matter. YOU matter.
Closing Reflection: Take a deep breath. What feeling are you leaving this page with?
Keep going, homeschool mom. Your “why not” moment is waiting.
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Teresa Wiedrick
I help overwhelmed homeschool mamas shed what’s not working in their homeschool & life, so they can show up authentically, purposefully, and confidently in their homeschool & life.
