7 Expert Homeschool Truths The John Taylor Gatto Way

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Let’s chat about John Taylor Gatto’s book, Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling, and how his John Taylor Gatto homeschool philosophy can inform your homeschool life.

John Taylor Gatto wrote so proficiently and passionately that I couldn’t possibly do him justice or share every way he’s influenced us. So I recommend reading him directly — read his work to be energized, to put wind in your sails even on your most discouraging homeschool days.

Nonetheless, I’d be remiss not to include this powerhouse author as a significant influence on our homeschools. So here are 7 John Taylor Gatto homeschool lessons that continue to shape how I teach, coach, and mother.

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7 Freedom-Loving John Taylor Gatto Homeschool Lessons

1. John Taylor Gatto Homeschool Lesson: Schools Teach Obedience, Not Purpose

Gatto says, “I’ve noticed a fascinating phenomenon in my thirty years of teaching: schools and schooling are increasingly irrelevant to the great enterprises of the planet. No one believes anymore that scientists are trained in science classes, or politicians in civics classes, or poets in English classes. The truth is that schools don’t teach anything except how to obey orders… the institution is psychopathic — it has no conscience. It rings a bell and the young man in the middle of writing a poem must close his notebook and move to a different cell.”

Kinda clear what JTG thinks about the education institution. Psychopathic — a strong word.

We’ve all had helpful, attentive, memorable teachers — the ones who made our school days pleasant or introduced us to something that mattered. However, we’ve all had critical, impatient, exacting teachers who made our school days miserable.

In our own homeschool days, we can be that helpful, attentive, memorable presence for our kids. And on other days, we’re the critical, impatient, exacting one too. After all, that’s part of being human.

But here’s where the John Taylor Gatto homeschool mindset differs from institutional schooling:

• The ‘home’ institution we create rests on intimate knowledge and connection with our kids — nutrition, connection, creativity, emotional expression, personal development, spiritual awareness, and relational skills.
• The “home” institution we enable is built on intimate knowledge and connection with our kids.
• The “home” institution we embody is geared toward the specific children in our home, honoring their uniqueness and their needs.

In a nutshell, there’s no school that can spend all day listening to a child explain why they’re building macramé owls to sell at the craft market, or cuddle and kiss them during a readaloud. Homeschool can.

2. John Taylor Gatto Homeschool Lesson: Education Should Build an Individual, Not a Conformist

Gatto writes: “Whatever an education is, it should make you a unique individual, not a conformist. It should furnish you with an original spirit with which to tackle the big challenges; it should allow you to find values which will be your roadmap through life; it should make you spiritually rich… it should teach you what is important, how to live and how to die.”

We could try to jam a bunch of facts into our children’s minds and hope they spit out the requested knowledge later. (Because, ya know, there are certain things everyone needs to learn — say I, sarcastically. Honestly, if you really need to learn something, and everyone else already knows it, there’s not much chance you won’t pick it up too.)

Shouldn’t education be more than cramming knowledge bits into our brains?

A Typical Conversation About Our John Taylor Gatto Homeschool Choice

So you homeschool? Yup. (smile — I’ve learned not to explain or defend it)

Is there a government curriculum you follow? Nope, we’re independent.

Where do you find the curriculum? Everywhere — online, bookstores, conferences, every conversation with a new human being.

Do the kids just hang out in pyjamas and use screens all day? OF COURSE we’re in PJs all day — we’re homeschoolers — but no to the screens.

Are you a trained schoolteacher? Nope. Bachelor of Science in Nursing, married to a medical doctor. Does that make you feel better or worse?

Are your kids geniuses? (Insert my rant about all children being geniuses in their own way — which means you’re a genius too.)

We home-educating families have to decide for ourselves what an education is and follow that internal compass. Here’s what I’ve come to believe: an education is about raising up another human being and enabling that human to live a life of purpose — to do meaningful work, provide for their family, and become who they were meant to be. In other words, that’s the heart of the John Taylor Gatto homeschool approach, and it’s the heart of mine too.

3. John Taylor Gatto Homeschool Lesson: Family Is the Main Engine of Education

Gatto writes: “Independent study, community service, adventures and experience, large doses of privacy and solitude, a thousand different apprenticeships… these are all powerful, cheap, and effective ways to start a real reform of schooling. But no large-scale reform is ever going to work… until we force open the idea of ‘school’ to include family as the main engine of education.”

You can’t accuse JTG of holding back.

How you run your family life and how I run mine won’t be the same. None of us thinks the same, values the same things, or focuses on the same things. For instance, we might vote differently, or disagree about vaccines, masks, and lockdowns. We might view technology like AI from opposite ends of hope and skepticism.

Your family might live on a mountain with a ham radio connection to the Space Station. You might have built your own earthship home. You might dream of canoeing the Nahanni River, while I dream of a gondola ride through Venice and a week learning to make pasta on a Tuscan farm.

🌿 This is exactly why I built the Confident Homeschool Mom Collective — because there’s no single “right” way to homeschool, but there is real value in doing it alongside other moms who get it. Inside the Collective, you’ll find ongoing encouragement, coaching support, and a community that honors your family’s unique path (not a one-size-fits-all curriculum guilt trip). Learn more about joining the Collective.

Our families may look nothing alike, but home-educating families share one thing in common: family is the main engine of our children’s education. Just as Gatto believed it should be — and just as the John Taylor Gatto homeschool philosophy insists it must be.

4. John Taylor Gatto Homeschool Lesson: Kids Shouldn’t Be Told What They’re Worth

Gatto writes: “The lesson of report cards, grades, and tests is that children should not trust themselves or their parents but should instead rely on the evaluation of certified officials. People need to be told what they are worth.”

Here’s a vulnerable truth: I grew up thinking I wasn’t smart. It didn’t help that someone told me so — repeatedly and harshly — when they should have said the opposite. I also took my cue from how poorly I tested, especially in math and science. In low-stress environments, I revealed real understanding. In high-stress, test-driven environments, I didn’t.

Decades later, I’d learn that stress at home had fueled my academic struggles. So it’s no surprise I didn’t think I was smart — not even after a strong GPA in a college dorm away from that stress, not even after completing grade 12 chemistry with deep fear and real pride, not even after marrying a remarkably intelligent man, not even after homeschooling four kids for a decade and a half.

The shift came for me in a passport office, reading a book about grace by a Chinese missionary named Watchman Nee. In one significant moment, I understood: if grace couldn’t be earned, why was I working so hard to measure up? I saw myself as created whole, worthy, and uniquely here for a reason.

The John Taylor Gatto Homeschool Truth About Worth

This is the John Taylor Gatto homeschool truth I stand on: school institutions perpetuate an evaluative approach to a child’s worth. No grade, test, or report card defines you or your kiddo. Period. You were placed here intentionally — not as a reflection of anyone else.

“I am brave, I am bruised, I am who I’m meant to be, this is me… I’m not scared to be seen, I make no apologies, this is me.” — Keala Settle, “This Is Me”

💛 If this hits close to home — if you’re carrying old stories about what you or your kids are “worth” academically — an Aligned Homeschool Reset session with me is a great place to untangle that. It’s one-on-one time to reconnect your homeschool choices with your actual values, instead of somebody else’s grading scale. Book your Aligned Homeschool Reset here.

5. John Taylor Gatto Homeschool Lesson: Solitude Builds Identity

Gatto writes: “Private time is essential if a private identity is going to develop, and private time is equally essential to the development of a code of private values, without which we aren’t individuals at all.”

I believe helping another human relate to peers and family is one of the biggest gifts of the homeschool lifestyle — which is ironic, because “what about socialization?” is the question I’m asked most often and most worriedly.

Few discussions around homeschool socialization mention this benefit: homeschool kids get a whole lot of free time to think, wander, daydream, and do nothing. We rarely experience solitude ourselves, so we rarely think to teach it. Our culture teaches us to crave public attention, favor extroversion, equate constant activity with importance, and search for meaning in crowds rather than within.

Maya Angelou puts it beautifully: “Many believe that they need company at any cost… We need to remember and teach our children that solitude can be a much-desired condition… It is in the interludes between being in company that we talk to ourselves. In the silence, we listen to ourselves… we may even hear the voice of God.”

So yes — I’m with Gatto. Solitude creates a unique individual, and it’s a quiet, underrated pillar of the John Taylor Gatto homeschool life.

6. John Taylor Gatto Homeschool Lesson: You Are the Expert on Your Own Children

Gatto writes: “Trust in families and in neighbourhoods and individuals to make sense of the important question, ‘What is education for?’ If some of them answer differently from what you might prefer, that’s not your business… It is illegitimate to have an expert answer that question for you.”

This is exactly why I mentor homeschool parents of any religion, philosophy, worldview, or persuasion — how and why you homeschool is your choice, not mine to dictate. If you join me in coaching, though, expect these three questions:

1. Is how you’re homeschooling working for you?
2. Is how you’re homeschooling working for your kids?
3. What do you believe an education to be, anyway?

I’ll gently push back on one piece of Gatto’s quote: it’s illegitimate to search for someone else’s answer to what your child needs — but there’s still no one on earth who knows your child better than you. There are consultants and helpers along the way: a counsellor to help untangle family dynamics, someone to help figure out why a child isn’t reading or is easily distracted, a coach to help dismantle your beliefs about what education even is.

🧭 That last one is exactly what an Aligned Homeschool Reset session is for. If you’re feeling foggy about what your family’s version of education should look like, let’s sit down together and get it clear. Reserve your Aligned Homeschool Reset session.

And if you want that kind of support on an ongoing basis — not just a single session — the Confident Homeschool Mom Collective is built for exactly that: a place to keep coming back to as your family’s needs evolve. It’s you who gets to decide what education is for in your family, and the John Taylor Gatto homeschool philosophy backs that up completely. You are the expert on your children.

7. John Taylor Gatto Homeschool Lesson: Don’t Settle for “Knowing Your Place”

Gatto writes: “Schools teach exactly what they are intended to teach, and they do it well: how to be a good Egyptian and remain in your place in the pyramid.”

Don’t settle for raising a conformist. And don’t settle for believing a schooled institution is the only relevant model. That’s the whole heart of the John Taylor Gatto homeschool philosophy — permission to build something that actually fits the individuals in your home.

Keep Growing Your John Taylor Gatto Homeschool Journey

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