Brené Brown has me thinking differently about how I show up in my homeschool. She may not speak directly about homeschooling (that I’ve seen), but her guiding principles—vulnerability, courage, and wholehearted living—definitely influence how I lead my kids’ learning.
So, how exactly has Brene Brown inspired my homeschool? Let’s dive in.
Lesson 1: Nurture Yourself to Nurture Your Kids
“To love ourselves and support each other in the process of becoming real is perhaps the greatest single act of daring greatly.”
This one hits me hard. As homeschool moms, we pour ourselves into our children, our families, and our homes—but it’s easy to forget that we need care too. Supporting yourself isn’t selfish; it’s essential.
When you nurture your own energy, creativity, and confidence, you show up more fully for your kids. You model what it looks like to take care of yourself while taking care of others—a lesson they’ll carry for life.
Lesson 2: Approve of Yourself, Not the Audience
“Nothing has transformed my life more than realizing that it’s a waste of time to evaluate my worthiness by weighing the reaction of the people in the stands.”
Oh, the freedom in this! So many homeschool moms feel pressure from neighbors, family members, or the random stranger at the grocery store. The truth is, their opinions don’t define your success.
Your homeschool journey is yours alone. You get to set the bar, define progress, and measure impact by your own eyes—by what you see your children learning, creating, and exploring. Approve of yourself, forgive your missteps, and celebrate your wins.
Lesson 3: Explore the Darkness to Find Your Light
“Only when we are brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light.”
Parenting—and homeschooling—can be messy and uncomfortable. Doubts, insecurities, and fears will always pop up. Brown reminds us that sitting with those feelings, instead of running from them, gives us power.
When we lean into our discomfort, we learn what motivates us, what drains us, and how to show up more intentionally. Facing our internal struggles allows us to parent and homeschool with more courage, joy, and presence.
Lesson 4: Be Brave Enough to Set Boundaries
“Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk disappointing others.”
Homeschooling often invites opinions—from grandparents, co-op parents, or even friends. Brown’s words remind me that saying “no” is not mean; it’s an act of love for your family and yourself.
Setting boundaries protects your energy and ensures that your homeschool reflects your values, not the noise of outside expectations.
Lesson 5: Model Courage and Connection
“Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it’s having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome.”
Every day in our homeschool, we get to practice vulnerability alongside our kids. We make mistakes, try new ideas, and sometimes fail—but that’s where learning happens.
By modeling courage, connection, and authenticity, we permit our children to do the same. That’s the heart of raising confident, resilient humans.
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Teresa Wiedrick
I help homeschool mamas shed what’s not working in their homeschool & life, so they can show up authentically, purposefully, and confidently in their homeschool & life.
“Be gracious with yourself, and forgiving too.” – This is a terrific piece of advice. One that I have heard before but don’t seem to remember often enough.
Oh girlfriend! I’m with you. I write stuff I need to hear.