I’ve got two seasons in my homeschool. I mix the eclectic with the unschool, a dab of formal studies, and a smidgeon of Charlotte Mason.
How to decide? Formal studies or unschooling? I choose two seasons in our homeschool.
Radical unschoolers don’t insist on anything prescribed. So I cannot call myself a radical unschooler because there is a season when I pull out workbooks and insist on essay writing, exponents, or French verb conjugations. (Depending on my child’s age).
I’m sure I might still change my approach because I’ve done this homeschool thing long enough to know I always grasp for something more true to my children and me.
There have been two seasons for our family over the last few years: the formal study season and the unschooled season.
We’ve put the books away. We’ve packed them into boxes even: the grammar books, the formal French and Latin, spelling lessons, and history lessons. We’ll see you all sometime in September. (Though the math books will stay in our care, spending a tiny portion of each morning continuing to be used until the end of June. Gotta stay fresh.)
This unschool season is not for increased screen time in our household.
In fact, I’m tighter on screen time. (If the kids become computer programing coders, it will be a remarkable feat as I’m not giving them enough time to pursue that.)
They have fought for the computer.
Yes, ironic, a screen. Even before I sat down to write this, I was asked how long I would be because two of the kids want to write their own fictional stories. Despite my daily writing practice, they’re lapping me at one thousand words a day. Each evening they read their continuing sagas to us. (I know I’m their mom, but they have written authentically listenable stories.)
They entertained me with their music.
Piano. Guitar. Vocal offerings. I think I hear something from iTunes coming from upstairs, but then I go upstairs and discover it’s one of my kiddos singing. I’ve even asked one of the girls for guitar lessons. (My girl isn’t nearly as patient as her mother, ha ha ha, as she insists I can play A minor, C, and G in thirty seconds or less, but I’m sure I’ll soon be strumming along with her present favourite, Vance Joy.)
They have found employment.
One of the kids gets paid to iron clothes, which is a payable job, as I have a love-hate (no just hate) relationship with ironing. Another kiddo waters the greenhouse plants every morning, while also tracking and drawing the growth of the pumpkin seedlings. Yet another has written her resume and cover letter, circulating it in hopes that she’ll land a library shelving position. One of the kids is catering for the monthly emerg staff meeting, making a couple of dozen breakfast treats, and learning about capital costs and interest on her new investment: a twenty-cup coffee urn.
They have indirect lessons on floatation and physics.
These lessons are found on playground equipment and in outdoor activities. The boat must first be inflated before they take it to the pond. Science!
Despite a leaky boat, they’ll row anyway…
Do the kids want to know if they can charge for rides in this contraption? No, no they can’t, because that contraption won’t stay together.
They learn home economics.
Bread baking, dessert preparation, muffin making: everyone gets a turn each day to create. And with all the ingredients required for baking, my oldest gal is taking on a full grocery shop independently too (with my credit card and all.)
They have afternoon quiet time.
With a screen. They can watch an episode of SciGirls or Animal Planet or Planet Earth every afternoon. All are found on Netflix.
And there are also extracurricular activities, and games, games, games.
Soccer, dance, gymnastics, music lessons, playdates, and youth groups. (With this extra time, I am even surprised to hear that my eldest daughter says she’ll play chess with her little brother every day. Wow.)
Of course, when September arrives, I’ll reconsider this unschool season and be eager to create a formal routine for our days. But I know these quiet, unprescribed days allow a bounty of discovery.
Either season, formal studies, or unschooling, can breed a heap load of learning.
“What is essential is to realize that children learn independently, not in bunches; that they learn out of interest and curiosity, not to please or appease the adults in power; and that they ought to be in control of their own learning, deciding for themselves what they want to learn and how they want to learn it.”John Holt
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